September 12, 2025
What is Self-LEadership?

Before you can effectively lead others, you must first master the art of leading yourself. 

Self-leadership isn't about being perfect; it's about being present and intentional. It's the inner work of aligning your thoughts, actions, and values, especially when no one is watching. In a world obsessed with image and influence, self-leadership grounds you in what truly matters. It's a call to be honest, clear, and centered before you even think about trying to inspire anyone else.

In my book, Dear Leader, I introduce a core idea: "Leadership begins before anyone gives you permission." This means you don't need a fancy title to be a leader. All you need is the willingness to face yourself, take ownership of your personal growth, and show up in the world with purpose.

Self-leadership shows up in the moments when there's no script to follow. When you have to make a tough decision or hold a boundary, even though it would be easier to just go along with everyone else. It's how you recover after making a mistake and find the strength to keep going. It isn't always flashy or applauded, but it's the fundamental building block for any kind of meaningful influence.

What does self-leadership look like in your life right now? 

Start there. Start with you.